Head Banging
Head banging occurs most
commonly between the ages of eight months and four years.
It is estimated
that a quarter of all children head
bang and it is more
prevalent in boys than girls. It can be worrying
for parents when their child begins to head bang but comforting
to know that children are rarely
damaged by it.
Children are all different
and some children find head banging
comforting and may bang their heads for a few
minutes while others can continue
for hours. It sometimes
starts during teething, an ear
infection or a physical
or emotional upset. Trying to find
the reason for the head banging is worthwhile
because it then can be dealt with more effectively.
How can parents help?
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Ask yourself
the following questions ‘is
my child in pain?’, ‘is there any
reason why my child so upset?’
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Give your child
more attention during the day
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Distract your
child when the banging starts by giving a cuddle
and making no reference to the
head banging. Relaxing
techniques e.g. stroking or massage can also
work well
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Offer a cuddly
toy when you have removed
your child from the head banging
position. This will encourage conditioning to
another more acceptable type of comforting.
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Always smile
when you are introducing an alternative
so that your child get the message of approval.
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Have happy bedtime
routines each night
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Put your child
down to sleep when sleepy and ready for sleep
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Some parents pad
the end of the cot to prevent
bruising. The padding must be secure in order
to prevent accidents e.g. your child’s head getting caught
in it
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If the head banging
persists and happens
very frequently or is extreme including during
play, check with your Doctor
to rule out any health problems