For example a two year old has not developed the concentration
and reasoning yet to undertake tasks. They also are at the stage in their development
when they want to exert power and control over their lives so getting them to
co-operate will need creative thinking.
You may find that most children will need to be encouraged to
co-operate with you by using play. Getting a two year old to let you undertake
basic tasks like putting their nappy or clothes on just needs a bit of imagination
to make the task fun.
Bearing in mind your Childs need to exert their power and control
you may also find it helpful to consider how to phrase the tasks that you want
your child to complete, all aiming at empowering your child.
For example:
“Put your boots on to go outside”
This is really a command that may cause you toddler to ignore
you completely!
Where as:
“As soon as you have your boots on I know you will be
ready to play outside”
May have a better response as it gives the child a choice and
is fun!
You can even encourage cooperation in older children with fun
games. Turning household tasks into games that you complete together.
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Getting your child to co-operate
with you really depends on a few things. First you need to take into consideration
their age and the stages of their development.
