Frequently Asked Questions - Behaviour and Discipline
Frequently
Asked Questions - Behaviour and Discipline
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My 2 year old daughter has been attacking other children, usually babies, over the last three months. She appears very sweet and playful at toddler groups but all of a sudden she can turn and pin them down and start scratching at their faces. There is usually no lead up to this i.e no sharing or snatching problems. I do follow her around at toddlers so's to reduce any sudden conflicts. She doesn't understand the naughty step. She knows when she has been naughty as I'm very firm with her. Her nails are now always short as she did draw blood on several of the children. health
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I'm concerned about my son who doesn't appear to be developing any social skills. He will play with me and his dad and his sister - with toys, football, role play, etc. but not outside his immediate family. At nursery he will join in with others but only using the toys not playing 'with' them. He seems happy playing by himself, but I can't help but feel that he is missing out on something. health
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My friends and I have been meeting regularly since our children were born. We all met at the Antenatal class and we enjoy each other's company. We now have a big problem because our two year olds scream and push each other over toys and don't seem to enjoy playing with each other. What can we do?
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I am very worried about my two-year-old son because my baby is due in eight weeks time. I am beginning to feel guilty about the baby now because friends have told me that my son will have a difficult time coping when the new baby arrives home. We have talked about the baby to him and he seems excited so how can I prepare him for the new baby and what should we do once the baby arrives? health
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My baby is waking in the night and head banging the cot we can no longer let him fall asleep himself as he just stands up and head bangs, is there anything we can do to discourage this behaviour?
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My daughter is 2 years old and although not a big eater, she has really almost stopped eating later in the day. Once awake she has a bottle of milk, which seems to be fine. In the morning up until about 1.30pm she will have a small bowl of cereal, half a slice of toast and maybe an apple and a banana. She drinks plenty of water and she does not like juice. We have our evening meal at 5pm and she used to sit down with us and eat a little. Now she refuses to sit with us or to eat anything at all. We've tried not letting her snack in the afternoon so that she is hungry at meal time, and we have tried cutting back the water as this might also fill her up. But she still won't eat an evening meal. She might have half an apple or a banana if she feels like it, but no proper mealtime food. She will however drink her milk later in the evening before bed without any problems. She seems fine in herself, is not being sick and no really messy nappies either. But I am very worried about what appears to me to be a very small appetite. Please help as soon as you can because I am not sleeping over this. health
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My eighteen-month-old daughter always had a nap for two hours in the afternoon but lately she is refusing her nap. The problem is that she is grumpy all day. Have you got any ideas that might help?
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My son is two years and has started to bite other children at the mother and toddler group we go to. What is the best way to tackle this? health
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I am worried about my son because he is oversensitive and every time I tell him off for being naughty he gets very withdrawn, closes his eyes as if to say 'I cant take this'. How can I discipline him without ruining his self-esteem?
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We have two children a three year old and an eighteen month old. Our first child loves all the hugs we dole out to her and is ready for a cuddle at any time but the younger one is not like that and is only happy with the occasional hug. Should we be worried about this? health
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Is it normal for my son to be tilting his head to the right ALL THE TIME? He has only been doing this for about 2 weeks but it's only now I have noticed he is doing it all the time! I am worried he is not going to be able to straighten his head or he might have neck problems? health
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My son has just started hitting people round the face, when I say no or his dad says no, we are quite firm with him, he just laughs and does it again, he even hits us, but we can't seem to get him to understand its wrong and it hurts and he just carries on doing it. Can you give me any advice on how I can tackle him with this? I don't have any steps to sit him on as I'm in a one bedroom flat, and also I have tried time out with him, putting him in the bedroom on his own, and it doesn't bother him, he likes it, so I don't know what to do next to get him to understand he can't do that.
